Nobody sees a flower really; it is so small. We haven't time, and to see takes time - like to have a friend takes time. - Georgia O'Keefe
What does it really mean to become a friend? How does one develop a friendship? It takes skill and risk. Anticipation and expectation can destroy more relationships than misunderstandings.
Friends remain realistic in their needs. They give what they want to get. They take time - a lot of time, for one another.
Designing oneself to become the friend desired requires listening skills, empathy, compassion and reciprocity. A friend arrives like a cool drink on a hot day. An understanding glance and hug can do more than medicine to cure illness.
Respect and restraint help friends walk in different directions, yet side by side.
Friends build a two-way street of give and take. One way street signs do not exist in their relationship.
How do you survive friendships? Can you be there and be fun?
Creative Write: What friendship survival skills do you have to share? What three talents do you develop in yourself as a friend?
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