Monday, February 18, 2019

Just Sing



"If you can walk you can dance, if you can talk you can sing."
- Zimbabwean proverb

Music evolved as a social tool. The pleasure from singing together provides an evolutionary reward for gathering cooperatively, instead of staying isolated in caves. When we sing, the musical vibrations move and energize our body. Sounds fuel and alter our physical and emotional states.

Dr. Julene K. Johnson, a researcher who has focused on older singers, began a five-year study to examine group singing as a method to improve the health and well-being of older adults. He found that group singing becomes both exhilarating and transformative. Songs shared with other individuals return as thrills to all. Harmony adds to the delight.

Graham Welch,  professor of music education at the Institute of Education, spokesperson for the National singing program for school children, Sing Up, commented, “Psychological benefits are also evident when people sing together as well as alone because of the increased sense of community, belonging and shared endeavor.” 


Singing in front of a crowd, like karaoke, also builds confidence and well-being. Tra La La La La.

Researchers have discovered that singing is like a tranquilizer that soothes nerves and elevates spirits. 

Elation arises from endorphins, associated with feelings of pleasure. Singing releases them. 

Oxytocin, another hormone that cycles during singing, alleviates anxiety, stress, and enhances feelings of trust and bonding. 

Studies have found that singing lessens feelings of loneliness and depression.  



Singing also provides some of the same effects as exercise, with the release of endorphins. The singer experiences an overall lifted feeling and stress reduction. 

As an aerobic activity, singing provides more oxygen into the blood for enhanced circulation, to promote a good mood. 

Singing requires deep breathing, another anxiety reducer.




Allan Schwartz, LCSW, Ph.D summarizes the beneficial effects of singing alone and in groups:

1. Memorizing the words to songs improves brain function, including the ability to store and retrieve memory.
2. The exercises associated with group singing improve deep breathing and that has the added benefit of adding to relaxation and stress reduction.
3. Performing in front of an audience and as part of a group inspires self-confidence and self-esteem.
4. Group interaction in a singing group ends social isolation and fosters relationships of all kinds.
5. Group participation is fun and allows people to get away from daily stresses and worries.


Energize in song.  Sing in the shower.  Sing in the car.  Sing on and on. 

Sunday, February 17, 2019

Go Play!

"Man is most himself when he achieves 
the seriousness of a child at play."  
 - Heraclitus

Everyone needs to play and discover ways to wander in childlike wonder. 

Constant attention on “have to” events of adult life deflates the creativity necessary to a balanced life.

What does play do? 

Play develops problem solving on a fun level. We fall down. We get up. The process repeats. We learn to let go of the fear of that F word, fail.

Adding spirit to life, play distracts from what pulls us into despair.  

We escape boredom with the ability to imaginate.


Perseverance, freedom, and joy abound in the fun state. A mastery of newness results in confidence. Hearts swell with nourishment.
Scientists have discovered that even animals play.

Try something new today in a playful way. Drive yourself into a Fun state. Venture outside of your adult life and revel with the abandonment of a child.

In writing, ask questions to discover what makes you feel playful.

Permit playful wisdom to result in a Fun state.


Can you squint to see the Blackfoot warrior stirring fire?





Go play!

Saturday, February 16, 2019

Connect with Contentment

Many go fishing all their lives without knowing it is not fish they are after.  - Henry David Thoreau

My crown is in my heart,
not in my head,
Nor decked with diamonds
and Indian stones,
Nor to be seen:
My crown is called content:
A crown it is, that seldom kings enjoy. 
     -William Shakespeare


The Master speaks of kireigoto or "pretty things," meaning less things. People spend all their time acquiring things. The cycle becomes endless for more and bigger. Throw away smaller one for the larger one; out with the old for a new one.







Make room in the heart for the art of nature.

Take in the "pretty things" with all the senses.










What lasts consists of the "things" you keep inside.



Ware tada taru koto shiru - I only know contentment.






To feel that one has a place in life solves half the problems of contentment. - George E. Woodberry




















Yes, there is a Nirvanah; it is leading your sheep to a green pasture, and in putting your child to sleep, and in writing the last line of your poem.
    - Kahlil Gibran








Find metaphors in nature to connect with contentment.