Our minds can create strings
of thoughts that move from anguish to armageddon within minutes. We move
deeper into despair by thinking about the next . . . and the next possible
disaster.
What if the next time the
chain begins we stop and re-arrange the lines to develop creative solutions,
absurd or awesome?
Instead of asking,
"What if this happens?" Flip the chatter. Ask - "In what
ways will I prepare for all situations."
Begin in awareness.
First describe the internal
feelings when the anguish begins. Notice how they circulate in the
abdomen or tighten the chest.
Breathing becomes shallow.
Find a word to stop your
train of thoughts. Write or yell: Halt! Gizmo! Never!
Begin to consider your
breathing patterns and find a rhythm of five counts in through the nose and six
counts out through the nose.
Think of how nature deals
with timing. Imagine the challenge of a seed breaking the covering to develop
shoots and roots.
Where does dark go at dawn?
Create imagery to remove yourself from the anxiety of the situation.
Focus on a scent like lemon
or your favorite aroma. Chase it to all its components and tastes. Let it
transport you to a time of tranquility.
Focus on a bird song, waves,
wind in tree branches.
Listen for the click click
of a hummingbird or a gull's cry.
Get into the details of the
shapes and depths inside flowers.
Bring in the Ha Ha Ha of
humor. Laugh out loud. Make fun of the situation.
By using awareness and
delving into distraction, laughter and creativity, watch the fragments of worry
disappear.
Wave goodbye!
Wave goodbye!
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